What to Expect in Each Trimester of Your Pregnancy

Published on March 15th, 2019 and Updated on December 4th, 2019

Each trimester of pregnancy comes with its own joys and challenges. And while there are certain hallmarks of each one, every woman’s experience is different and unique — in fact every pregnancy can be different even for the same woman. It’s an invitation to tune into your body and heart on a daily basis and trust in beautiful things to come!

Of course, it does help to know what you might expect, and more importantly, what you get to look forward to. Here’s an idea of what each trimester can be like and what to look forward to at different stages of pregnancy.

The First Trimester

This trimester begins with conception and goes up through week 12. Most women find out they are pregnant between 3 and 9 weeks, usually when they realize they’ve miss a period or are frequently testing. If you’ve been pregnant before, you may recognize the earlier signs sooner.

What you might be feeling:

Excitement! This marks a whole new chapter in your life — whether that’s adding a new child to the family or a new sibling.

Concern. Thoughts about how to stay healthy, how to properly prepare for new baby, and all that will come after delivery, can feel overwhelming at first. Just remember: one day at a time.

Fear may come up, too — as it often does with big change. You may have lingering concerns about how the dynamic of your family will shift; whether that’s the way you relate to your partner, or the day-to-day lives of your other children (if you have them), life will undoubtedly be different. It’s natural to feel overwhelmed by those unknowns. The best way to meet any fear is one day, and even one moment, at a time. When those feelings do come up, communication can help. Sometimes half the battle is in being able to say the words out loud. “What if?”

What you might be thinking:

Almost every thought will likely be around: what’s next? You’ll be making some of those first “big” decisions: finding out the gender, when to tell your family, what kind of delivery you want, and who your OBGYN should be. You’ll need to call the insurance company and look into maternity leave if you work. To top it off, you’ll likely be dealing with the first signs of “pregnancy brain”, which could make all these efforts feel a bit more overwhelming.

One step at a time! Make a list and tackle them day by day. Lean on your partner, friends and family for support and don’t be afraid to delegate. It’s good practice for the future!

What might be happening in your body:

Significant change in hormone levels can lead to nausea, strange and specific cravings, and breast tenderness. You may actually lose weight from the nausea or feel a little bloated and tight in your jeans despite it. On the bright side, higher levels of estrogen prolong the growth cycle of hair, leading to thicker locks (and in many cases, shinier too!)

 Best moments to look forward to:

Finding out your baby’s gender! Now you’re able to find out much sooner —  as early as 8 weeks, and without having to book another doctor’s visit.

The Second Trimester

Welcome to week 13 – 28! This is the trimester when pregnancy becomes more real — mainly because everyone else knows about it. You can share in the joys, get advice (or politely refuse it) and enjoy the excitement of what’s to come.

What you might be feeling:

A growing sense of anticipation coupled by a new sense of calmness.  As your baby bump grows, don’t be surprised if your nesting instinct kicks into full gear, too. This is the perfect time to prepare and get things done.

What you might be thinking:

Now that some of the bigger decisions are in the works, it’s time for the fun part. From choosing a name and prepping the baby room to forming a birth plan, you’ll be in full-on “get things done!” mode for the next couple of months.

 What might be happening in your body:

This will likely be the most comfortable trimester of the three – and luckily the perfect time to complete “nesting” activities and preparation. For that very reason, it might be a good time to consider going on a “babymoon” with your significant other for a little more couple bonding before baby arrives.

Your bump will start really showing, so don’t be surprised by the random oohs and ahhs and questions of ‘when are you due?’ from friends, neighbors, and perfect strangers. Amid an angelic glow and sense of happiness, you may also experience back aches, heartburn, leg cramping, as well as skin and hair changes. These symptoms look a little different for everyone.

Best moments to look forward to:

Sharing the news with family and friends and getting to feel baby kick and turn. There’s nothing like it!

The Third Trimester

That due date is right around the corner now. You’re considered to be in your third trimester when you enter week 29, through full term at 40 weeks.

What you might be feeling:

Calm preparation mode, punctuated by bouts of anxiety about when the baby will come, if family will be in town, how the delivery will go. And of course, wondering if that contraction-like feeling you’re having is Braxton Hicks or if you’re actually in labor.

What you might be thinking:

Your mind will be focused on the delivery. The best way to quell anxieties is to prepare and communicate with your partner. Take classes and plan your ideal delivery, as well as an alternative option just in case you need it. These steps will help you feel confident and ready. Be sure to get lots of rest too — you’ll be glad you did later!

What might be happening in your body:

Full disclosure: this part can get uncomfortable. You may have trouble sleeping or finding a position you like when lying down. The baby will “drop” in preparation for delivery, which you may distinctly feel as a sudden movement, or may happen gradually without you really noticing. You may experience false labor contractions even weeks before birth. Unlike true labor contractions, which come at regular intervals and increase in strength, false labor contractions are usually irregular and do not increase in intensity. If contractions are consistent and getting stronger, that’s your cue to get the hospital or birthing center!

Best moments to look forward to:

What else? Meeting your new little one.

No matter what happens when, or how it happens, this pregnancy is a beautiful chance to practice presence, tap into the amazing abilities of your body, bond with your partner, and connect with what life is really all about. Like all the best things in life, it will be wonderful, messy, and breathtaking. Enjoy it for all that it is!

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